HOW WILL I KNOW?
The night that I sat on my bed journaling, I got this rushing sense of ‘knowing.” It was like Truth had been direct deposited into me; a sudden download of perspective on the matter of my life and how it would intertwine with someone else’s and make sense. I felt quite calm sitting there, my journal sprawled open on the bed and the pen in my hand. I remember suddenly smiling in amazement.
I went back to my college at the end of Christmas break and broke up with my boyfriend Rob.
Then, just 3 weeks later, Bill asked me to marry him.
When it comes to knowing if you’ve found The One, most people think you should first answer the question, “But do I love him? Or Do I love her enough to marry her?”
We think Love will lead the way to us knowing whether we should spend the rest of our life with someone. And obviously we want Love to be the primary motivator of our lasting relationship.
But there’s something just as important as Love, when it comes to KNOWING if you have the right person.